Ask for Feelings not Tunes

from blog Jeff Kaufman's Writing, | ↗ original
In putting on a contra dance, it's standard for the caller to pick the dances and the band to pick the tunes. Since it's much more satisfying when the tune fits the dance, the band and caller confer briefly between each dance. For example, the caller might say they want something "smooth and pretty" or "energetic with a chunky A-part". Sometimes,...