When you love something made by a terrible person

Here’s the thing: When you write about yourself, your own experience, it can’t be fair. By nature, by instinct, and even by design, I want a story that is understandable...

Here is how I, a cishet white woman, will save the trans community and also, certainly, the larger LGBTQ+ community (because why not) and after that most likely I will...

I fucking hate this shit. I hate conflict like this. I hate people I like being mad at each other. I hate disagreements within my circle. I hate feeling empathy...

“Some of these things are true and some of them lies. But they are all good stories. —Hilary Mantel” We don’t live life, we live storiesWe do not live a...

Good advice for when you feel lost in your head, panic settling in, is to name tangible things around you. Grip the edge of the table, name it: I feel...